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Three gems for self-confidence

Are you looking for a gemstone that helps to boost your self-confidence ? Do you sometimes feel insecure and do you want to be stronger in your own strength ? Or are you looking for a gemstone for a loved one, so that he or she gains more self-confidence? In this blog you can read which three gemstones can support in strengthening self-confidence.

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Low self-confidence can be seen in different ways. For example, a negative self-image of someone can be a cause that is connected to a lack or lack of safety, appreciation and connection. Other reasons may be that the person is very perfectionist or that too much is being asked of them. Whatever the reason, it's always good to work on this with professional help if needed, but gemstones can also provide support and boost self-confidence .

In this blog I will tell you about gemstones, which I have a positive experience with and which are also available as jewelry in the webshop. The advantage of wearing gemstone jewelry is that you always wear it close to you and it also looks beautiful!

It may be that during your research (for a gemstone for self-confidence) you come across different gemstones from different sources and this differs everywhere. This can sometimes be confusing. I have made a selection based on the effect and own experience of stones. Always try to think from your feeling and if a stone feels good, it's okay. It can be difficult at first, but the more you practice this, the easier and more fun it gets!

How does a gemstone create self-confidence

Before I explain to you which gemstone helps with self-confidence, I want to explain how gemstones work. This is how you learn to understand why a gemstone can support boosting self-confidence.

How does a gemstone work?

A gemstone, like humans, consists of vibrations. This is also called frequency. Everything in life has its own vibrations, like a gemstone or us as humans. By wearing a gemstone, the vibration of the stone can interact with your vibration and therefore do its job, so that complaints can decrease and you can get a positive experience through the gemstone.

Below you can see the energy field of a human being. You may have noticed the energy of someone standing close to you. This is because the energy fields can touch each other and one is more sensitive to this than the other. If you are very sensitive to it, you may be HSP ( Highly Sensitive ).

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The stones below can support you in boosting your self-confidence. I will tell you what the characteristics are for each gemstone, so that you can feel / view for yourself which one best suits your situation.


First, I'll start with one of my favorite gemstones. That's labradorite. Labradorite is a protective gemstone and keeps negative energy at bay, attracting positive energy . The stone cleanses and strengthens the aura and protects against negative energy such as overstimulation, entities or negative people. It is therefore a very suitable stone for HSP . 

The stone reduces stress and helps you to stand in your strength . Labradorite has a strong connection to your intuition. This together ensures that self-confidence is stimulated . It is a good stone to use in spiritual activities such as meditation, mediumship or lightwork.

Physically, the labradorite gemstone has an analgesic effect and has a positive effect on the eyes, brain, metabolism, rheumatism, lungs, bronchitis, gout and (pre)menstrual complaints.

The labradorite at Zenvya are often bright blue in color, so you not only have a fine working gemstone, but you can also carry a beautifully striking gemstone with you.


Citrine is a sunny and warming stone . The stone stimulates self-esteem, self-confidence, individuality, extroversion and self-actualization. The stone gives energy, joy of life and courage and helps to overcome depressions, fears and phobias and self-destructive behavior. Citrine attracts luck, prosperity, success , wealth and abundance and encourages the wearer to share this with others.

Citrine stimulates creativity and promotes self-expression and helps to resolve conflicts within a group. Citrine protects the aura and cleanses the chakras.

The stone also provides energy and strength physically. It stimulates digestion and has a beneficial effect on the stomach, spleen, pancreas and intestines. The gemstone also helps with infections of the kidneys and bladder, improves blood circulation and helps people with chronic fatigue syndrome.

Because the stone provides strength and attracts happiness, your self-confidence can be stimulated.

rose quartz

Rose quartz is pre-eminently the stone of the heart and love . The stone has a strong effect on the heart chakra and opens the heart to receive love and to give love. The stone attracts harmonious love and friendly relationships and stimulates self-love and self-acceptance .

Rose quartz has a mild, gentle effect and has a calming effect on grief and trauma and promotes empathy, openness and helpfulness. The stone makes receptive to all kinds of beauty and stimulates imagination and creativity .

Physically, the stone has a positive effect on the heart, genitals, fertility, chest and lung ailments and prevents dizziness. Finally, it helps with age-related ailments such as Alzheimer's and Parkinson's disease.

The stone teaches to love yourself more and therefore it is an ideal gemstone to wear if you want more confidence or want to give a loved one more confidence!

Which stone to choose for self-confidence?

Especially when you are just starting out with gemstones, it can be difficult to choose the right gemstone for your own feeling. Basically there is no right or wrong, as long as it feels right. Feel free to send an email to info@zenvya.com if you have any questions.

You can also visit a point of sale and choose a gemstone based on your feeling. You can also view all gemstones for self-confidence via the button below and make a choice based on that.

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